Transferred Reality : Your reality is your own creation.

That's too much responsibility for most humans.

They are happier feeling like the victim of others.... this is a powerless position to hold and it is simply not true.

Many think the origin of their challenges is in someone else's behavior. Always, it’s about someone else, but it’s simply NOT SO.

If you want to change your experience of the world and have others treat you with respect and love, you must change your own vibration. How can you do that? I have found the fastest path to changing who you are and therefore, what you attract is through forgiveness.

You may think that's a lame idea or you may think " I've already foregiven so and so... but the evidence of what's real is always in the third dimension. Look at your life and your experience... are you experiencing freedom, joy, affection?

When you forgive others it is

entirely for your own well being.

Humans are trained to be competitive. We are trained to look for comparisons and spend time measuring ourselves against each other.

Our personal pain and sense of separation are born in this world of self judgement. Why? Because we will always find ourselves lacking until we understand the power of forgiveness.

During covid I made a call to a girl in Australia, I had not spoken to her in a long while. Like me, she is the mother of five children and I had always felt genuinely aligned with her.

We had a brief conversation. She ended by saying she felt we could not be friends because she could not forgive me. I asked her what I had done to offend her and she could not tell me. She was in pain.

I spent days pondering what it might have been before I got the true lesson.

It did not matter what it was.

What mattered was she was holding on to a judgment on me she had made years ago. It was still a wound. Still had her distressed and unable to be a friend. Something I was completely unaware of.

It was then I understood why foregiveness is for the giver, not the receiver. Do you realise the people who hurt you may NOT even know they need foregiveness !

Foregiveness is taking the power you have within you, to let go of your own burden of judgment on others and yourself, and SET YOURSELF FREE.

After that call, I really searched my heart for those I have not forgiven and worked on that. I thank her often in my mind for making this clear to me.

Forgiveness is the gift you give yourself and in doing so, you become an easier person to be around. Lighter. More loveable and more creative.

If you find yourself stuck in old patterns around foregiveness, burdened by old wounds, it would be my honour to support your healing process. I have a wide experience and a deep understanding of this pathway to personal freedom. Life is such a mystery, I can help you enjoy the journey with more awareness and more personal freedom.